Resources for Thriving Leaders. Pt 11 “The Rest”

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Friends, here are some resources for Monday’s post on the importance of rest. If you need to review the blog from Monday, click here Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 11 “The Rest”)

John Calvin is said to have talked of rest not as diversion from creativity but as a necessary part of it.

See Mark Labberton’s book, The Dangerous Act of Worship, p. 95. He says that true justice starts with rest.

See as well Eugene Peterson’s book, Working the Angles, on work and rest pp 47-49; and learning to play, p.  53.

Also, see the following on Sabbath keeping for pastors:

http://www.christianitytoday.com/pastors/2016/august-web-exclusives/sabbath-keeping-for-pastors.html

Perhaps you’ve seen this video on Facebook of what it’s like to pastor ‘sheep’:

Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 11 “The Rest”)

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Rest is the discipline of relaxing, regrouping and replenishing our souls, minds and bodies. Thriving Leaders know how to take time apart from their front line duties to rest, to “be” and not just “do”.

Leadership has a slippery slope. Being effective in leadership often gives us an adrenaline jolt that is addictive. The jolt keeps us wanting more. But more is never enough. Performance desire hides our need for rest. We short-circuit our bodies and minds.  Continue reading

Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 10 ?The Criticisms”)

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Thriving leaders expect criticism. They know ways to learn from, cope with, and survive denigration from others. Leaders who fail in this area tend to wilt, get angry, retaliate or quit the job altogether. Here are some examples (chosen from many) in my years of serving the church. Continue reading

Resources for Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 9 “The Boundaries”)

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If you missed my blog on boundaries, go to Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 9 “The Boundaries”)

Here are some resources I recommend for further study and reflection:

A good read by an articulate physician helps us think through what it’s like to live in a fast-paced world and to establish ‘margins’ that feed our weary souls.

Margin: Restoring Emotional, Physical, Financial, and Time Reserves to Overloaded Lives by Richard A. Swenson. NavPress PO Box 35001, Colorado Springs, Colorado 80935

An article for pastors who don’t know how to say “no”.

http://www.christianitytoday.com/pastors/2016/august-web-exclusives/sabbath-keeping-for-pastors.html

Billy Graham, the famed evangelist, with his team, in the 1940’s wrote the Modesto Manifesto, four rules they observed as boundaries that preserved their ministry through the years. Here’s a good article on adding a few more:

http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2017/march-web-only/other-billy-graham-rules.html?utm_source=ctdirect-html&utm_medium=Newsletter&utm_term=9457295&utm_content=504876105&utm_campaign=email

The Soul of Ministry: Forming Leaders for God’s People by Ray S. Anderson, the late professor at Fuller Seminary who has a good section in his book on the misuse of power (p. 187) and the proper use of power (p. 199) in leadership.

 

Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 9 “The Boundaries”)

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God’s kingdom purposes in the world require thriving church leaders. The work of joining Jesus in God’s kingdom work of evangelism, social justice and cultural renewal can be as challenging as it is exciting. God empowers us with his Spirit to reflect Jesus’ love to others in need, inviting them to know God’s love in Christ and to become followers of Jesus in and through the fellowship, worship and mission of the local church. God calls us to bring to rights the cultures of the world, the people of which will one day bow and praise God in the new heaven and earth. Continue reading

Resources for Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 8 “The Family”)

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If you missed my blog on the thriving leader and his/her family, No. 8 in the series, click here Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 8 “The Family”).

Resources for this week’s important blog on the family:

Nick Stinnett. Building Family Strengths, Lincoln, Nebraska:  University of Nebraska Press, 1979.

The above book may be out of print. I found an article online summarizing Stinnett’s work. He interviewed 14,000 families to find out what made strong families strong. A worthy read:

http://www.colsdioc.org/Portals/0/Departments/FLO/Documents/6_Traits_of_a_Strong_Family.pdf

Here’s an article by a pastor on the importance of guarding one’s ministry from hurting the family:

http://www.christianitytoday.com/pastors/2014/February-online-only/when-ministry-hurts-your-family.html

 

Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 8 “The Family”)

Denn skiingThriving leaders pay attention to their families. They put a high priority on speaking of them, spending time with them, honoring them in word and deed and living out a family commitment that surpasses the value and worth of their work and and ministry.

It’s not that thriving leaders don’t know what to do when it comes to family. Continue reading

Resources for Thriving Leaders: Blog #7 “The Temptations”

img_6064-jpg-1Today I post two books as resources for dealing with temptation. I made references to these books in my Monday blog which you can read by clicking Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 7 “The Temptations”).

One of my favorites is by Henri J. M. Nouwen, In the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian Leadership: The Crossroad Publishing Company, New York, N.Y., 1989. The late Catholic author casts the three temptations of Jesus in contemporary language that is very helpful to all in leadership.

Then a reminder from one of my favorite authors who tells us that Satan does his best to trip up the leader in the holiest place in the church. See C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters with Screwtape Proposes a Toast: Revised Edition: Collier Books, MacMillan Publishing Company, New York., 1982. p. 173.

This coming Monday we will look at the leader and the leader’s family. Enjoy.

Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt. 7 “The Temptations”)

1200px-Temptations_of_Christ_(San_Marco)“The more a leader thrives the less the leader is likely to be tempted. A strong leader moving in the Kingdom purposes of God has long passed the point of struggling with any evil desire or distraction that would dog one’s steps and trip up the leader. A thriving leader is shielded with divine Immunity that prevents him or her from Satan’s snares.” Jesus’ example blows that thinking clean out of the water. Continue reading

Resources for Thriving Leaders: (pt.6 “Conflict”)

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Resources for Part 6 on Conflict: (If you missed Monday’s blog on handling conflict, click Thriving Leaders: Lessons From the Front Lines of Ministry (pt.6 “Conflict”)

Two good articles I found on the Internet are:

  1. Ten ways to NOT deal effectively with conflict. Copy and click the link:

https://www.verywell.com/conflict-resolution-mistakes-to-avoid-3144982

2. Four ways to deal with conflict in a positive way. Copy and click the link.

http://www.edcc.edu/counseling/documents/Conflict.pdf

Then I found a section of Bonhoeffer’s Life Together that deals with Confession  and Communion, chapter 5. The German Lutheran pastor talks about confession of our sin with others in the church and forgiving others as we have been forgiven.

May your conflict be manageable, with God’s grace.

Denn